:::Sigh:::

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Good morning, Saturday people. My question for today is…

lighthouse2animationDo you sigh? Do your characters sigh? Mine do, I found out. Yep, these guys are real mouth breathers. A recent “search and destroy” on my WIP revealed my 26 cases of sighing. Dissatisfied, mournful bunch, eh? Oh, I’ll admit, a few times they’ve huffed. A groan or two escapes. The boring but necessary “exhaled” makes an appearance. But these few descriptive verbs aren’t enough to deal with 26 occurrences of the almighty sigh. What should I do? Is it just me, or do others labor over descriptions for the troubled, bored, wistful or otherwise disenfranchised character? Help!

Pam sighed, thinking that no one would likely answer her plea…

Parents of MiddleSchoolers: Wake Up!

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typewriterI rarely use this page to share my personal or political viewpoints on controversial subjects. Just isn’t good business, if you know what I mean. But something came up this week that I feel I should comment on.

As some of my followers know, I am and always have been very involved with our local school districts. I’ve logged countless hours in the classroom, chaired events, served as a PTA executive board member. I attend district meetings, act as liaison between schools, and sit on the SCV Education Foundation Board. I’ve watched with saddened interest as our embattled schools deal with unprecedented budget cuts; listened to our downtrodden but courageous superintendents and administrators share their frustrations; sympathized with educators, many of them close friends.

So when the local high school district announced earlier this week that they were dispensing with promotion ceremonies for 8th grade junior high school students, I immediately took interest. The estimated savings is $40,000.00, not an insignificant amount. What makes this even timelier is that I have an 8th grade daughter, who’s been planning her attire for this morning event, normally held at our nearby community college.

I wish it didn’t have to be, and I mourned the news for about a day. The schools have promised to acknowledge their successful exiting students in some way on their individual campuses.

Frankly, I was surprised and actually disappointed in the response by the community. The students, understandably, are upset, and have rallied in opposition. Chalk it up to their age and that egocentricity young teens hang their hats on. It makes for great texting and Facebook chatter, another reason to dis the authorities. Except for the electronic methodologies, we did the same thing. What’s really upsetting to me is the number of parents and other adults who are up in arms. These must be folks whose heads have been firmly buried in sand over the past year or two, as the rest of us have watched this very serious budget disaster progress. Teachers, admins and clerical staff are losing jobs. Furlough days are taking students and educators alike out of the classroom. Class size reductions, something our schools have been so proud of, are history. Programs are competing for funds to stay alive.

Forty thousand dollars can save an art or music program. It can buy copier paper for the production centers. More, teachers can gain back those precious instructional days that would have been spent on promotion activities. Is it really so hard to let go of a pomp ceremony to celebrate our children having survived two years of middle school? What kind of message does that give them?

Let it go, parents, aunts, neighbors. Instead, spend that energy on thinking about what you can do to help our schools get through these next, few—euphemistically called “lean”—years, and explain to your outraged middle schooler that life will go on.

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Mad Hatters and E-Readers

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March Madness! We love March. March is…

  • Small press month
  • Women’s history month
  • National Nutrition Month
  • National Kidney Month
  • American Red Cross Month.

rebw See anything interesting yet? Maybe you’re not up to a whole month of anything, so consider this: it’s Read an ebook week! Yes, those annoying tree-huggers are back, admonishing you for still reading paper books! I’ll admit to reading both, although I prefer the “e” variety and have for many years. Do I have a dedicated ereader? Yes, and no. My ereader is the granddaddy of all ebook reading devices, the Rocket eBook, and it’s like 8 years old already. Heavy, clunky, but adorable.

On Monday, I noticed the woman on the next treadmill was jogging while reading a Kindle, placed on the magazine deck of her machine. She had to reach up every few seconds to press the spot that would turn the page as she ran. Very jazzy. Poor me, trying to read about Johnny Depp in Entertainment Weekly, while the overhead fan kept blowing the magazine’s leaves. Hrmph.

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To celebrate REBW, my niece and I went to B & N yesterday and she scraped up $280 in cold, hard-earned cash (she’s 18) for a nook ereader. (Yes, it’s lower case. Go figure.) We were both so excited and spent quite a while playing with it later. While I am enamored with the upcoming Apple iPad, I am so not enamored with the $500+ price tag. So I’m going to wait a bit, get the feedback from my niece on the nook and see if I get a chance to test drive the iPad when it comes out. In the meantime, I’ll play with her nook. Say, look what she’s reading!

POINT SURRENDER is available for your nook, your Kindle, your Sony reader and even your Rocket eBook. Read it on your computer, your iPhone, your MACBook. Your Pocket PC, your Blackberry, your Palm Pilot. And even (shhh! – don’t tell everyone) available in dead-tree version! (On sale at B&N.com for $11.69!)

Happy Reading!

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The Evils of “E” (The Cyber Kind)

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typewriterThis is one of those things I’ve been meaning to write about, but I’ve been lazy lately. (Read: busy with un-fun things.) “E”, in this case, is not the drug Ecstasy, but “E” as in “Email” and “E-“ anything else electronically communicable.

Two incidents prompt me to speak up. The first was my posting of a “Retweet” on Twitter recently. My cyber pal George posted that it was his birthday, further explaining that he has been “clean and sober for two years.” It wasn’t his actual birthday, you see, but for a recovering addict, a launch into sobriety holds as much importance. Instead of replying to George, I re-tweeted his joy, prefacing it with my own congratulations.

Now, my “tweets” are set up to post to my Facebook page. Soon, I received a FB message that a friend of mine was wishing me happy birthday and congratulations (on my sobriety, of course!) I’d forgotten, of course, that not all FB folks are Twitterers, and therefore do not understand the brief “RT” in the message as being a “forward” of someone else’s words. Oops.

The other incident is much more troubling. I sent an email to a very dear friend, asking about an upcoming charitable event we were sharing. She didn’t respond for some time (weeks). When she did write me, she ignored my email and her words seemed to convey a disconnect with me with regard to my participation in the event. Stunned, I waited a couple of days to answer, then wrote her a long, heartfelt response. More weeks passed, and I felt horrible over the whole affair. Sadly, I did disconnect myself from the event. I eventually decided I would call my friend, but before I could, that very day she called me.

My friend was in tears. She’d discovered I’d removed myself, couldn’t understand why. So what happened? She changed email addresses. None of my emails reached her. Instead of hitting “reply” to her email, I started fresh, using her old email address. Sounds pretty simple, but the repercussions were horrendous and heartbreaking. I should have picked up the phone when I didn’t hear from her the first time. Should have picked up the phone when she wrote me and I misconstrued her words. Shoulda, coulda, woulda.

Oh, the perils of cyberspace. Be warned.

MURDER… in La-La Land!

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La-La_Land_Cover_Final-165x222For those of you not “in the know” – “La-La Land” is the not-so-affectionate nickname of our City of Angels (originally El Pueblo de Nuestra Señora la Reina de los Angeles de Porciúncula or The Town of Our Lady the Queen of Angels of the Little Portion); some just call it “Smell-A” (nasty, ain’t it?)

Why “La-La?” The definition, “A state of being out of touch with reality,” has been applied to the residents of Los Angeles, poking fun at our oddball, possibly eccentric ways. Being the eccentrics we are, we tend to just laugh it off. Anyone who’s seen “L.A. Story” would understand. When the Los Angeles chapter of Sisters in Crime looked for a name for its newest anthology, it just seemed to fit. The call went out for short stories concerning crime with a local flare. My story, “Just Like Jay” was selected! When you see the company I’m keeping, you’ll know why I feel so honored.

MURDER IN LA-LA LAND is being published by Top Publications. As one of the anthology authors, I’m excited to announce that a launch party has been set. A favorite local bookseller has graciously arranged for us to unveil our new book amid happy festivities!

The Mystery Bookstore, Westwood, Los Angeles

Saturday May 22, 5pm

I certainly hope some of my readers will be able to come by. As it turns out, advance copies of CAPE SEDUCTION should be in hand by that time as well! (Formal release will be at Printers Row in Chicago in June.)

Although people keep asking, I’m not allowed to divulge the identity of the mysterious “Jay” in my story. I will only say that the tale involves a particularly vintage Oldsmobile, and the chance sighting of L.A.’s most beloved nighttime talk show host. Ahem.

Living Our Lives Out Loud

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I posted a link on FB a few days ago to a video I happen to love. This is Rob Thomas, one of my favorite entertainers, and the song is “Someday” (From Cradlesong, Sept 2009.) It’s a feel-good tune about hope for a better future. The video depicts a bunch of variously angry, sad, and generally negative people caught in an urban traffic jam. Soulful Thomas sings his way down the street, threading his way through taxis and various people on the sidewalk, to discover that the traffic is jammed due to a parade for hope and peace.

Many today will label this little film idealistic and fluffy. For all the obvious reasons, people have grown skeptical, disaffected and pessimistic, especially when talking about the future. But like the “half empty, half full” glass routine, it’s all a matter of perspective. Belief—and not just the religious kind—can be a powerful factor in raising optimism, and optimism in itself can initiate change. Yeah? So Rob (may I call him Rob?) has chosen to accentuate a positive, albeit commercial, outlook in creating this happy, uplifting (if you choose it to be) tune.

Take a look, and let go—for just that 3-4 minutes—of your worries. I, for one, am glad for idealism and fluff. Because there’s just too much of the other stuff these days.

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The Lighthouse’s Tale – Nickel Creek

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13332__nickel_lI’m back from my hiatus. Didn’t know I was taking one, but there it is. I did.

Here is a video you will enjoy. This song came out something like 9 or 10 years ago, by American bluegrass band Nickel Creek. Saw them at the Greek Theatre, opening act for someone else, and was just floored by their charm and talent. Told from the perspective of a lighthouse, this ballad is tragic but lovely. The original video for it can be found here, but this dramatization is very cool as well. Please enjoy!

Nickel Creek is on a semi-permanent hiatus, having disbanded to pursue individual interests. But as two of the three members are brother and sister, the band stays in close contact and supports each others’ efforts and forays into new musical adventures.

Back soon!

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2000 Personal Review – Part Two

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Still going mad. Peeps, you have no idea.

More about last year, and this.

doctor-scaleTaking care. I lost 13 pounds in ’09, and resumed the wearing of contact lenses. How did I manage the weight loss? Stopped eating sweets, stopped eating seconds, started walking more. Dancing with iPod-clone.  2010: Will continue to pay attention.

boy again

Oh, Boy. Yes, Boy George (O’Dowd) has had a profoundly bizarre life (IMO), and has in some way inspired the writing of Paulie Bingham. As it turns out, Paulie is a completely different character (so no worries, George.)  But after reading George’s bio TAKE IT LIKE A MAN (not recommended reading for haters or homophobes) and researching other so-called androgynous entertainers of the 80’s, I was compelled to write a story. It’s done, it’s sitting, and I’m on to something else for awhile.

P2080301Singapore.  Incredible trip to attend my son’s wedding. Monumental. What a beautiful city/country. I blogged about it earlier, so no repeat info here, except to admonish: don’t eat the durians.

New business. Wasn’t looking for it, but a new account dropped into my lap via a mutual banking acquaintance. Nice company in Bev Hills. Seems to be a good fit. Extra income is very helpful!

Coming up: Won’t call them resolutions. Goals, perhaps.

Get organized. As I mentioned earlier, I am drowning in paperwork. The amount of mail we get is staggering. Because I am involved in so much, I have multitudes of files for my charitable organizations, my accounting clients, my book marketing campaigns, my school work, and just the day-to-day garbajjjjhe that lingers because it doesn’t quite fit anywhere. This has got to stop, because it’s dragging me down emotionally!

Lightening the load. Speaking of those charitable orgs, I need to quietly step away from some. Not looking forward to doing that, it’s not easy, but something’s gotta give!

Tasting life…and wine. The 4th annual Relay For Life Wine Tasting is coming to my backyard on May 8th. Am putting together a committee to ramp this thing up a bit this year. Despite the less-than-stellar economy, it might be our best year yet.

There’s more, a lot more, but I tire of windy blogs.  Back later.

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2009 Personal Review – Part One

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My New Cover!

Coming Soon! (Honest)

Aside from the notion that I am, in fact, going mad, everything seems to be fine.

Everyone is quick to say, “2010 will be better!” Even in the bank today, a customer—a stranger to me—called out the same, asking for my concurrence. I do believe that people everywhere are ready to feel better. They are ready for recovery, and their attitude may just be a self-fulfilling prophecy. I hope so.

About 2009? What do I remember? What influenced me?

John. Although most things take no particular precedence, one event does stand out above all the others: the death of our friend John. Nothing quite so profound has happened to me before. Nothing pervaded my mind so completely for so many weeks and months. The shock notwithstanding, the empathy I felt for his widow—my best friend—was, and is, enormous. Unbidden, the memory of her phone call still haunts me. It’s not something you can forget. Nor was John someone you could forget. If a man’s wealth is truly measure by the love and grief of his survivors, John was a very rich man.                               Other things….

Going back to school. So proud of myself for doing it. I enjoyed my classes, I worked very hard, was rewarded with good grades. 2010: Will resume classes in February.

My family. Hubby had to change jobs, but is working and fully recovered from his health scare of a year ago. Major thankfulness on that front. Kids are now working (yes!), and happy at their jobs. Daughter went missing, alien teenage girl took her place. Still looking for the original, but the replacement turns out to be not so bad.

My writing career.  Finished two novels, nearly finished a third. CAPE SEDUCTION is a great book, probably the best I’ve written, has a wonderful cover I had the pleasure of designing myself, and will be released soon. OLD ENOUGH, another middle grade mystery, is yet to be submitted. (My bad.) My WIP, UNMASKING PAULIE BINGHAM, is nearing completion and at the moment is a long book. Of course it will be shaved down, eventually, and I don’t look forward to that prospect. JUST LIKE JAY, a short story for Sisters-in-Crime/Los Angeles’ upcoming anthology, MURDER IN LA LA LAND, will be published this spring. Huge, puffed-out-chest-pride on that one. 2010:  Will finish Paulie’s story, will start third paranormal lighthouse mystery. Will try to work on getting OLD ENOUGH at least submitted…

Part Two to follow…..